Anonymous asked: This guy and I were dating for almost 2 months. It wasn't official b/c i didnt want it to be. I wanted an open relationship. I talked to him many times asking if he was okay with this, and he kept saying yes because he couldnt see himself dating anyone else. I knew he was falling harder for me than i was for him. After we had this talk, he ended things two days later. On the same day i was going to. I think our friend told him. Coincidence? Should i initiate n be friends w/ him? i think i want 2
i’m not really good with being friends with my ex’s or past flings. i find it too hard to re-establish, or establish, a friendship after intimacy. it just doesn’t work out in my case. if you want to try, be mindful of his feelings. take things slow and definitely don’t rush into attempting to do things that you used to do as a “couple,” whether you were official or not.
