Anonymous asked: How do you know when you're "talking" with someone or if it's just a flirty friendship? I don't want to start gaining feelings if he doesn't feel the same, and then I'll just end up getting heartbroken in the end.
when i start to like someone, i’ll start texting and talking to them a lot more. i’ll send them good morning and good night texts. i change my tone of voice when on the phone with them. i do my best not to lead people on. if i like you, you’ll know it.
yes, it sucks when you “catch feelings” for someone who only sees you as a friend. and yes, there are people that are very hard to read. the best thing to do in either situation is to tell them how you feel. yes, disappointment might hurt, but it is much less painful than having unrequited feelings. go out on a limb and tell them how you feel. they might feel the exact same way.
