i hate it when girls say, “all guys are the same.” no. all guys that you like are the same. admit it girls, you don’t go for the “nice guy;” you go for the cocky and confident guy. you go for the guy that can talk to you one day and ignore you completely the next. you go for the guy that couldn’t give a fuck about what you have to say or what’s on your mind. you go for the guy that has one thing and one thing only on his mind. fuck your feelings, all they care about is fucking you. and you girls eat that shit up. you fall for their fake ass complements. i bet you don’t know they’re saying that to at least five other girls. but you still give it up to them. and then you wonder why they dump you right after they get it in.

and then you become bitter. you start to believe that all guys are the same. that we all only care about one thing. you start to believe that there are no more “nice guys” in the world. but in fact there are. but they are all in the friendzone with you. you know, the guys that tell you you’re beautiful. the guys that are there to talk to you when the guy you’re infatuated with drops you for the next girl. the guys that you see as brothers. yeah, those are the nice guys. often, they are too scared of fucking up a friendship in order to tell you their true feelings.

so they give up. they give up the hope that you and them will one day be together. they move on. they eventually find a girl, not necessarily in comparison as great as you, but hell, it’s better than nothing, right? and then you start to realize what they mean to you. but it’s often too late.

(Source: isaacmartinez)