March 2012
181 posts
darnicles replied to your photo: nailing an interview. at the request of one of my…
Hellyeah!! Deeply appreciated cause i always bomb these -___- Thanks a millz!
you’re welcome! go get a job and you can say it was all thanks to me 8]
hannahmaeb replied to your post: 1 and 6 :D
I meant to write 2 and 6! XD
what i’m really bad at:
i’m bad at letting people know how i feel. i often get friendzoned because i fail to tell the girl that i like that i like her more than a friend.
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i got the job :D
yesyesyes. anyways, i’ll have a “nailing the interview” post coming up shortly.
February 2012
165 posts
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distorted thinking
only your thoughts can upset you. when you feel upset, the thoughts that make you feel bad are often illogical and distorted, even though these thoughts may seem as real as the the skin on your hand. in other words, when you feel lousy, you are nearly always fooling yourself about something, even though you aren’t aware of this. it’s as if you are wearing a strong pair of eyeglasses...
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Depression Hotline: 1-630-482-9696
Suicide Hotline: 1-800-784-8433
LifeLine: 1-800-273-8255
Trevor Project: 1-866-488-7386
Sexuality Support: 1-800-246-7743
Eating Disorders Hotline: 1-847-831-3438
Rape and Sexual Assault: 1-800-656-4673
Grief Support: 1-650-321-5272
Runaway: 1-800-843-5200, 1-800-843-5678, 1-800-621-4000
Exhale: After Abortion Hotline/Pro-Voice: 1-866-4394253
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fifty ways to untwist your thinking
i learned these “fifty ways to untwist your thinking” while i was enrolled in a therapy class called “rapid recovery.” the class was aimed at helping people change the way they thought about things; things that made them anxious, depressed, or any other negative feeling. it helped me, this is for you.
empathy - when you’re upset, you need someone to listen and...
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remember your dreams and fight for them. you must know what you want from life....
– paulo coelho
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they told you that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. what they failed to...
– tiana tozer
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imagine we are all the same. imagine we all agree about politics, religion and...
– bill brummel
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why are we inspired by another person’s courage? maybe because it gives us...
– laurence shames
i have lost all hope in tumblr
after watching some twelve year old talk about how bored she is. and that post getting over three hundred notes. wtf. please, get away from tumblr.
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the top ten ways to start living your life
why compare yourself to others? no one in the entire world can do a better job of being you than you.
life either happens to us, or we take hold of life and live it. here are ten ways to get a life and start living it.
give yourself permission to claim your life. that’s right - permission. you’re the only one who can decide you are in charge of your life. even though it feels like you’re...
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twenty tips to living a better life
ONE. give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
TWO. marry a man/woman you love to talk to. as you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
THREE. don’t believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
FOUR. when you say, “i love you,” mean it.
FIVE. when you say, “i’m sorry,” look the person in the eye.
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whatever your decisions, do them with both heart and mind. using only one or the...
– @TheOniled (via isaacmartinez)
take care
isaacmartinez:
nobody can give wiser advice then yourself.
listen to your inner warning system. be prudent. don’t rush into situations without thinking them through. the early bird may get the worm…but usually it’s the second mouse who gets the cheese. take your own advice.
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it's in your heart
isaacmartinez:
the truth is not far away; it is in our hearts.
there are so many people out there who will tell you that you can’t. what you’ve got to do is turn around and say “watch me.”
via anonymous
to all the girls
isaacmartinez:
confidence is a stain they can’t wipe off.
to all the girls that wish they were cuter, skinnier, smarter, more attractive, or whatever the fuck today’s society has made you want to be or look; let me tell you one thing, there’s one guy out there that wants to make you the happiest girl in the world. please do not compare yourself to anyone else, but you. you are you. and...
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Anonymous asked: do you regret not talking to your girl friends?
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Anonymous asked: why didn't your ex like your girl friends?
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Anonymous asked: You mentioned your bad relationship in the past, what advice can you give to prevent it happening to anyone else?
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Anonymous asked: I'm struggling with depression and I just don't feel happy. I think my friends think I'm doing it to get attention. What should I do?
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Anonymous asked: what kind of music do you like?
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Anonymous asked: do you follow back?
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Anonymous asked: what's the key to your heart?
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Anonymous asked: what's your favorite color?
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Anonymous asked: what is your biggest fear?
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ask me anything →
survey time
tl;dr
this time last year, can you remember who you liked? hahah, yes. where is the shirt you are wearing from? from active, i think. is there someone you used to talk to every day that you don’t talk to at all? yes, story of my life. do you listen to your friends when they tell you a boy or girl is bad for you? lol they don’t tell me anything. you’re up after 3 AM, what’s the...
6. Let others make stupid choices with impunity
darnicles:
Do you spend a lot of time getting irritated by the stupid things other people do? Do you get annoyed by people who stand in the 15-items-or-less line with 18 items, or by bicyclists who don’t wear helmets, or by the fact that Jenelle on Teen Mom 2 keeps going back to Kieffer even though it’s obvious he’s Bad News? What would it be like to let it go? If it’s not your health or...
xvxavier:
If you’re a “nice guy” to a girl up until you realize she doesn’t want to date you, then go on about how she’s a cold shrew that friendzoned you and how no girls date nice guys, like, nah mate, girls do date nice guys. You just aren’t a nice guy. You’re a passive aggressive beta with internalized misogyny and a serious victim complex.
interesting.